Thursday, 30 July 2015

Abhinav Rajesh Menon

                                         No one is in charge with ones happiness, except oneself! We are so happy in Saskatoon!
                                                       Abhinav and his grand mother


                               View from the window- his neighbour hood in Kloppenberg in Saskatoon at Saskatchewan              

SASKATOON - The land of ever shining sun in summer


                                    Saskatoon in Saskatchewan  - The land of  ever shining sun in Summer and never shining sun in winter.  Rivers with clear  water, forests, fresh air, friendly people, acres of agricultural land--  see and believe!    







 Saskatchewan is a Canadian province named after the Saskatchewan river meaning swift flowing river, which has a land area of 592,534 square kilometers. The presence of lakes, ponds, reservoirs and rivers make it beautiful. Saskatchewan is bordered on the west by Alberta, on the north by the Northwest territories, on the east by Manitoba, and on the south by the  United states of Montana and North Dacota.  As of December 2013, the population of Saskatchewan was estimated at 1,114,170. Of the total population, 257,300 live in the province's largest city, Saskatoon Regina, while 210,000 live in the provincial capital, Regina. Other major cities include Prince Albert, Moose Jaw, Yorkton, Swift Current, and Notrh BattlefordSaskatchewan has been inhabited for thousands of years by various indigenous groups, and first explored by Europeans in 1690 and settled in 1774. It became a province in 1905. In the early 20th century, the province became a stronghold for Canadian democratic socialism.  Tommy Douglas, who was premier from 1944 to 1961, became the first social-democratic politician to be elected in North America. The province's economy is based on agriculture, mining, and energy. Saskatchewan's current premier is Brad WallSaskatchewan summers are usually hot and dry. Temperature  reaches from 15 C (60 F) in May to the mid-30s C (90-95 F) in July and August. Nights tend to be cool.  Sometimes temperature  reaches above 38 °C (100 °F) during the day. Winters are usually bitterly cold reaching  sometime  to even -40c. Saskatchewan is in Central standard time. Saskatchewan is the only province that does not switch to daylight savings time in the summer and is seven hours behind Greenwitch Mean Time(GMT)Thus, extreme climate is a reality for the Saskatchewans. Saskatchewan summer is very unique. " Saskatoon shines"  is an encrypted pillar I see when ever I travel from Ever Green housing complex to the university of Saskatchewan in the city of Saskatoon

I arrived on the 8th of July  2015 from India via Frankfurt and Toronto to Saskatoon. I like flight travel a lot. Nineteen hours in the aircraft with a lay over time of 5 hours at the Frankfurt airport and an Olympic run to catch the last flight from Toronto as the last passenger, where by all means challenging to me, although I managed to get tucked in the Toronto- Saskatchewan  flight! When I reached Toronto I  wished my journey ended there. 
  I traveled another three and half hours to reach Saskatoon. Abhinav, my grandson along with his dad Rajesh and mom Lakshmi  were eagerly waiting outside the airport to receive me. It was 12 35 am.The dawn of the new day was beautiful specially because of the extra large moon on the blue sky, blossoming in its warmth to receive the new guest of Saskatoon.  

Saturday, 22 February 2014

February 19 - Celebration of Former Students Association of SN college for women, Kollam

                                           K.R. Meera, the Odakkuzhal award winner with FSA
                                           Sukumari teacher and M.R.Sarasathi teacher


                                             FSA meeting at S.N.College for Women,Kollam
                                                     Chief guest Meera speaking to the Audiance


                                           K.R. Meera with  myself and Sheela, the President of FSA and Jaji

                                                          Falicitating KR Meera at the function

                                                    My best friend in Pre- Degree - Sheela Panikar (1965-67)                                  Batch 1965-67

                                             Meera with Principal

The best period,rather my golden time was when I was a student of the Women's college. I still maintain contact with my teachers in SNWC. Recently, I spent 2 hours with Menaka teacher who taught us Economics in  the Pre- Degree course. She was so happy to see me sharing the 49 year back incidents. She remembers me as a small girl wearing full skirt and half sari, flying evry where in the college like a butterfly to do many things. I participated in sports, games and cultural activities. I was in the N.C.C., although I was too lean and small.    She was surprised to hear that my blog's name is flying butterflydrsarada. I was fond of another teacher- MR.Saraswathy. At the time when I studied in SNCW, she was very beautiful and she beautifully taught us Indian History. I visited her every year and now she is a member of our family.

My best friend in our class was Sheela Panikar. She studied in Delhi and Pune. She was my English teacher!  I was poor in English as I studied in Malayalam medium in Govt. girls high school at Kollam. I used to seek her help in learning English grammar. I was extremely happy to see Sheela after many years. We ate lunch together as if we were college students in 1965!     
 

Thursday, 20 February 2014

ATTUKAL PONGALA - Religious festival of Women Empowerment


ATTUKAL PONGALA MAHOTSAVAM- FEBRUARY 16, 2014


“Sarva Mangala Mangalie, Sive, Sarvardha Sadhike
Saraneye, Thrambike, Gowri, Narayani Nomo sthuthe"
"Amme, Narayana, Devi Narayana,  Lakshmi Narayana , Bhadre Narayana"
Attukal Pongala Mahotsavam is the Sabiramala festival for Women. It is a women empowerment festival. The collective power of women supported by men ,just for the day is a unique visual treat!The function starts with lighting fire at the brick hearth known a Aduppu, which originates from the Pandara Aduppu of the Attukal temple, where the pongala payasam is prepared as nivedyam (offering) for Devi by the temple designated persons. Pandara Aduppu is lighted exactly at 10 30 am from the lamp in front of Devi at Sreekovil  of the temple.    




                                                 Chandana  is drawing the pongala picture

                                                   

                                      
                                             Foreign students offered Pongala for Devi
                               
                                            Mammoth of women devotees!


                                             Women preparing pongala payasam







                                       

                                                Therali leaves for preparing Appam


                              

                                              Therali Appam, ready to get  steam cooked
 



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                                                myself, Mini, Manju and Ratnamma chechi

  I also prepared Pongala payasam for Devi . In front of the pongala aduppu is the offering in the banana leaf for  Lod Ganapathy. It is a ritual done before lighting fire at the pongala Aduppu. Below is the boiling water with rice spilling to the fire. At this time all of us do 'KURAVA', a special sound of symphony to let others know of our happiness.
                          
                                                                 



This year also the ecstatic festival for women, Attukal Pongala was celebrated
 at the capital great city of Thiruvananthapuram in Kerala in India. With over 50, 00000 women of different ages lining up all over the city and its outskirts, in the late hours of February 15 and in the early hours of February 16, with not less than 12 hours of minimum waiting time, to light fire to each woman’s Pongola aduppu is an unforgettable experience.
The offering of pongala, done every year, only by women, is the beauty of the festival. Pongala is done in and around the Attukal Bhagavathy temple, in every house, in every street, in every government or non government office   premises .The pongala line stretches from all directions of the Temple to more than 8 miles.  It is an amazing experience! Women from all over India and even from foreign countries participate in this Mahotsavam. Attukal pongala is the highest accorded festival of women in India. It is Sabirimala for women.
 The deity at Attukal temple is  Bhagavathy meaning goddess, who is ingrained in her devotees as the originator, preserver, and destructor of the universe.  At Attukal temple, Devi is in the form of Durga, predominating as the destroyer of evils and preserver of goodness.  Devotees ardently believe that ‘sakthi’, the power is needed to fight injustice and create harmony for good living.  
Devi Durga is also known as the mother of all virtues.  Sakthi- the mental and physical power is what women need to seek justice, feel equality and happily live in a healthy society.  And, that is the need of the centuary.  
Pongala, the special kind of offering is done to Durga Devi to throw away evils in one self and acquire power to strengthen the self to fight against injustice.
Devotees believe that Parvathy, wife of Lord Siva,incarnated in Kannaki, the much described  heroine in Chilappadikaram, by the famous Tamil poet, Elankovadikal, appeared in the form of a beautiful  woman on the banks of Killi river to give darsan to her fervor  male devotee  in Mulluveetil house at Attukal. She asked the devotee to help her cross the Killi river, which the devotee happily did. But he was so astonished to see her disappearing at the bank of the river. He saw the same woman as Devi at night who asked him to arrange a rest place for her at the nearby KAVU ( a place of bushes). He quickly did what Devi demanded. He placed Devi’s idol and started offering pooja (worship).   The devotee offered rice made pongala for Devi. Later on devotees slowly started coming for Devi’s blessings.  They also started giving rice based pongala to seek blessings. Now thousands of women, every year on the nine th day of Attukal temple utsavam in the month of February, offer pongala to seek blessings of strength  from Devi for a better life.

Attukal Pongala is a global community festival. Women from all over the world participate in this festival.
Each woman participant is visualized as Devi.
On Pongala day, all religious believers,school and college students, governmental and non governmental employees, actively get involved as volunteers to give all possible support to women participants of the Pongala function. No house is there without providing basic amenities like food and water to these participants.  Palayam Muslim Jamayat mosque and the Christian churches on the sides of the M.G. road provided all possible facilities to Pongala women.  Traffic police and city police personnel do the most difficult task of facilitating smooth traffi to and from the Pongala vicinity.
In this year, 63 women prisoners of Attakulangara Women's Jail, offered Pongala.      

I went to Thiruvananthapuram on  14th February by train.  All compartments wee filled with women. The pongala eve was filled with activities of women buying pongala pots, wooden or coconut shell made big thavi to stirr pongala payasam, dried coconut leaves, husks , kothumbu etc. for litting fire to cook, therali leaves, jaggery, rice, planton ,towels commonly known as thorthu, flowers, avil, coconuts, malar, kalkkandam, etc.- the ingredients for the next day’s event.

With my puntured left thigh muscle,  I was hesitant to participate in this year's Pongala. But my visit to my cousin sister Lalitha accan, facilitated my participation in the Pongala festival .Her daughters Mini and Manju and grand daughter Chandana, and Hari's mother were the members of our group. Hari, husband of Manju, son Mohit supported us in getting and transferring all necessary things for pongala to the spot. We assembled in the compound of the Vanjiyur court, where so many women were preparing for Pongala. Chandana, opened her book and drew her imagery of Pongala.
                                           Pongala drawing of Chandana
Mini and Manju pioneered mixing of the ingrediants for therali appam and mandaputtu. Chandana, her grand mother Ratnamma, and myself joined them. 
 At exactly 10 30 am, the muhurtham( time) for lighting fire, all of us started chanting 'Sarvamangalye' and lighted fire at the brick aduppu. The fume, the heat from the hearth and from the sun made all of us sweat and we could not keep our eyes opened due to drifting of water from our eyes.  One to one and half hours of the celebration is the real tough test of our devotion to Devi. The pot was filled 60% with water. Once the water was boiled, cleaned rice was put in the water. When the rice water spilled the pot and reached the Aduppu, all of us did kurava. After boiling the rice, we added powdered jaggery and continuously stirred the ingredients in the pot. When it was properly cooked, we again added pieces of planton. The pongala paysam was ready around 11.40 am.  We covered the nivedya payasam with the banana leaf. At 2 30 pm, the temple designated poojaris blessed the pongala nivedyam. Lunch was served to all of us.  At 3 pm, all of us with our pongala payasam slowly walked to the nearby house of the grand mother. later, we returned to Hari's house.

It was the most joyful day for all of us! Let more and more women join on the next years Pongala Mahotsavam to add on psychological strength to face the growing hurdles of life. Let Attukal Pongala be the icon of Women's empowerment! Let us join in the spiritual feast! 

 



Thursday, 13 February 2014

NANDA - MY FAVORITE FRIEND

                                               
                                            



                                       I, NANDA- WIFE OF NARENDRA PRASAD ( LEFT US ON DECEMBER 1ST 2013) AND KALA RAJAN.

                                           
I was her close friend and she a friendship enthusiast.
she saddled her friends with love and care
Still with excess, without prejudice, for others too!
She enhanced our tummies with beautiful dishes
Her magical touches made taste memorable.
She never flouted quality norms of friendship
She never declined requests for get together.
She was a friend in demand
She had the highest value in friendship.
But……………………….
Just nine months of hope against hopelessness
From the day of detection to treatment
Cells multiplied, called themselves cancarous
But seldom them could swallow her courage
Seeing the slow down to zero in monitor
With no expectation of life in her
Her daughters wept, grand children wept
All of her friends wept, specially me.
My friend was destined to leave, and I, to live.
Yet, I see her with the kaleidoscope of  my memories
Today and for ever. I love you, dear.

Tuesday, 25 June 2013

FLOOD 2013 in North India


Flood 2013 in North India

Heavy rains and the flooding in North India permanently switched off the lives of hundreds of people.      Rough weather is constant companion of the people of Himachal Pradesh, Uttarkhand and Delhi.  Safety for them is mere illusion during rainy season.  Nobody knows when one will be evacuated from one’s life without further existence. Monsoon rains in the third week of June 2013 wreaked havoc in the state of Uttarkhand. It is a regular survivor of nature’s multitude calamities. 
Rivers Ganga, Yamuna, Sarada, Khagra, Rapti are mercilessly out flowing. Roads are invisible.  Flash floods, cloudbursts and land slips claimed lives of hundreds of people in Himachal Pradesh, and Uttarkhand. Nearly 80 thousand people are missing. 60 villages are completely washed out. Thousands of pilgrims and tourists are stranded in pilgrim centres without food, clothing, shelter, electricity and safe drinking water. They cannot communicate to their people as there is no communication system. Several buildings including hotels swept away in the swirling waters of rivers. Toll will be much more than the official calculation as several are missing and rescue operations have yet to reach the required fast rhythm.
I cancelled the Chardham (visiting the temples in 4 places – Gangotri, Yamunothri, Kedarnath and Badri Nath) pilgrim trip to Himalayas in this year because I was not healthy enough to walk the 14 kilometre stretch in the Himalayan Mountain to reach the famous temple of Kedarnath. My professor friend in Uttarkhand  Dr. Latha Gairola was all set to take me to these pilgrim centers in this year. I was longing to go.  But I cancelled my trip in the last minute. But today, I was so shocked to read the news of unexpected and gross calamities that wiped off thousands of lives of people, animals and the nature itself.
 Lanslides left thousands stranded in Kedaranath and Badrinath, the most famous Hindu temples. The temple of Kedarinath stands 3584 up above the sea level, in Himalayas.  River Mandakini has squeezed Kedarinath so severely that the idol of Shiva alone remains undestroyed.
 The pilgrims live in Dharmasalas in Kedarinath. They provide cost free accommodation to all.  All the 90 Dharmasalas have completely wiped off.  Nearly hundred poojaris who conduct religious rituals, 20 security personnel, and other employees of Kedarinath temple were swept away with in no time. Bad weather obstructs helicopters to rescue the stranded ones. Damtha, a place 70 kilometres away from Yamunothri itself has nearly 25000 people, not knowing what to do. The fury of rivers swapped so many lives.

I stood still, praying for all of them.

The India govt. has declared the situation as national disaster. Quick actions are executed. All are waiting to get instructions for participation in the rebuilding process.